The Dead Man Game or often referred to as “Dead Man, Dead Man, Take Me to Your Grave And Kill Me” is a game or ritual that is one of many scary ritual games that tests their limits. It involves a trick that results in the participant’s hands or arms rising on their own.
Other versions of the game or trick include “Peter Piper Take Me to Your Grave and Never Return” and “Bloody Mary Rise From The Dead and Raise My Arms.” Variations using the phrases “Johnny Johnny,” “Old Man Old Man,” or “Freddy Krueger” also exist.
It is one of the more simplistic versions of various ritual games similar to such games as Sara Sarita, the Elevator Game, and others.
The Dead Man Game Instructions
To participate in the game “Dead Man, Dead Man, Take Me to Your Grave,” two individuals are needed. One person will perform it on the other person, who will need to follow a series of steps.
Ask the person to close their eyes and remain quiet throughout the ritual. Their eyes should remain closed for the entire process.
Instruct the person to count to 10 in their head and then nod. Once they have nodded, take their arms and move them back and forth, alternating above and below each other, a total of 10 times.
Repeat Step 2 a total of 5 times.
Repeat Step 2 a total of 7 times.
Repeat Step 2 a total of 3 times.
Click your fingers three times beside the person’s ears.
Ask the person to repeat after you: “Dead Man, Dead Man, take me to your grave and kill me.” Encourage them to continue repeating this phrase until their arms start to rise up like a dead man.
Scary Games and Rituals Such as The Dead Man Game
Children and adolescents often engage in activities that involve fear and risk-taking. Scary games or rituals such as the Dead Man Game (or “Dead Man, Dead Man, Take Me to Your Grave And Kill Me”) are no exception. These activities can provide an adrenaline rush and a sense of excitement, which can be appealing to young people seeking new experiences and a sense of adventure. However, the reasons why children may want to participate in these activities can vary.
In addition, children may participate in scary games or rituals as a way to bond with their peers. These activities often involve a group of friends working together to complete a task or overcome a challenge. The sense of teamwork and camaraderie that comes with these activities can be very rewarding, and can help young people form strong social connections.
For some children, participating in scary games or rituals like the game “Dead Man, Dead Man, take me to your grave” may also be a way to confront their fears and anxieties. By facing their fears in a controlled environment, they may be able to overcome them and gain a sense of empowerment. This can be especially beneficial for children who struggle with anxiety or other emotional issues.
However, it is important to note that not all children may be interested in engaging in these activities. Some children may be more risk-averse and prefer activities that are less intimidating. It is also important for parents and caregivers to monitor these activities and ensure that they are safe and age-appropriate.
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Last Updated on April 12, 2023.